So today a friend of mine asked the question "Why is it sexy for girls to like girls until they stop liking dudes?” Good question right?? I thought so.. But my question tonight goes beyond men. My question is for all of those straight women who are ultimately afraid to be themselves. "Why are straight women so afraid to be themselves? Meaning if your a straight woman who is sexually attracted to other women why act as if it is something gross or its something that you would never do?

In my opinion majority of all straight women are in some way or another attracted to other women. I mean the signs are obvious... Women don't dress to impress men they dress to impress other women, to see the reactions that they get from other women, the looks, the compliments etc. Its easy for a women to say that another woman looks good or is pretty, when its harder for a man to compliment another man.

The fact that most women have insecurities and are uncomfortable with their sexuality just makes it harder for them to be themselves. I believe (and again these are just my opinions) that these same women who are always talking about how they "Strictly Dickly" and whatever else it is that they claim to be would just take the time out to just let go and accept themselves for who they are then they would be able to act upon their feelings. It is these same women who give bisexual and lesbian women a hard time about their sexuality. I think that these women look up to bisexual and lesbian women because they aren't afraid to live life for themselves and no one else. They aren't afraid to say that they love women or they love men and women for fear of what the next person might say.

Looking back i used to be ones of these females. I used to find myself fantasizing about other females and secretly checking them out all while having a boyfriend and talking to guys. When in fact it was never the guy that i wanted, it was their sister or female friend or ex-girlfriend even. But when i got the courage to look beyond what everyone else thought about me and what i liked I became a better person inside and out. I've never been happier!!!! I'd take happiness (or as my friend would say being GAY) over being insecure and scared any day.